After well over 25 years of single life, I’ve had my fair share of one night stands. I’m gonna tell you the single most important thing I know when it comes to having sex with a girl the same night you meet her.
But first, one caveat: As an adult bachelor, you really should be more interested in meeting girls and having friends, than hooking up with random women on the same night. As I’ve said from day one, when you’re not married, you must have a lot of friends and social connections.
So with that out the way, I’m pretty sure every guy wants a good one night stand every now and then. Most of you guys enjoy having a girl straddling on top of you saying, “I can’t believe I’m doing this… I don’t even know you,” or a girl waking up in the morning asking, “what’s your name is again?” It’s not necessarily the physical sex, but more the confidence you have knowing you’ve created this out of nothing, and didn’t have to take the girl out 5 times before she took her clothes off.
So here’s how you do it, two words:
No, I’m not talking about the gym, I’m talking about that golden hour near the end of a night at a bar or club. During this time, within reason, it doesn’t matter what you look like, how cool you are, how charming you are, nothing. Almost anyone can find a girl within the hour near the closing of a bar and take her home.
Most guys probably get this, but I know many single guys in their 30s and 40s who haven’t stayed out past 2:00 am in years. If they ever hope to have a random one night stand, they’re gonna have to stay out past this curfew.
Here’s how Power Hour works. For example, in Las Vegas I’m not exactly sure when the clubs close, but I’m guessing around 5:00 am., but in XS, Omnia, Marquee, Hakkasan at least, the crowds thin out around 4:00 am.
So between 2:30 am, and 3:30 am, is the absolute best time to be in a Vegas club. I talked about this briefly, in my article A Solo Trip To Las Vegas
I should say the best time to be in a Vegas club to find a girl for a one night stand is 2:30 to 3:30 am. because I can’t guarantee the hottest girls are still in the club as it gets closer to close.
Everyone knows girls are horny when they’re drunk, but most guys don’t realize that window closes before the bar closes. You must get the girls before they’re tired and thinking about how much their feet hurt.
Let me be a little clearer, it doesn’t matter how much you drink, it only matters how much the girls drink. You can be completely sober, but as long as the girl you’re talking to, or dancing with, has alcohol in her system, you’ve got a very good chance of having sex with her that night. The term “liquid courage” makes little sense because you can drink all night and talk to every girl in the bar, but if it’s 9:00 p.m. and the girls are stone cold sober, you’re gonna have a hard time.
And, although less as girls get older, girls obviously have social pressure not to sleep with random guys. Also, even though women are in their sexual prime in their late 20s and early 30s, they normally won’t go home with a random guy completely sober. They might every now and then, but the odds are terrible.
I have no idea what the percentage is, but there are a lot of horny girls in a club at 2:30 am. They’re gonna have sex with someone, it’s just a matter of whether that someone is you. Check out the You Tube videos of the guys asking 100 girls for sex at random. Yes, normally it’s 0 for 100, but do you think it would be the same in a club at 3:00 am.? – of course not.
Now I know what you’re thinking, “I’m too old to go to clubs until 3:00 am.” or you hate the bar and club scene, I understand. I wrote about this in my post No Sex with your Hot Bartender in that Happy Hour is probably the most appropriate place for adult guys to meet girls. But here, I’m simply talking about taking a girl home the same night. And yes, I assume you can wait for girls to get drunk at happy hour, but it’s not the same as 3:00 am.
Finally, you can adjust the hour to wherever you live. Just figure out an hour and half before the club closes, and use that hour. Just don’t wait til the last half hour because the girls are too tired, or they’ve already found the guy they’re gonna have sex with.
The bottom line:
If you’re trying to have sex with a girl an hour after meeting her, it’s a waste of time getting to the club before 2:00 am.