Have you been dating? 2020 prevented you from going to bars and clubs to meet girls. Lots of guys went on Tinder and other dating sites to meet girls.
Now in 2021, you can go back to bars but is it worth it?
Not really, Seeking.com is still your best option.
But What About Bars and Clubs?
Bars and Clubs are not perfect for older men.
Most guys stop going out to bars and clubs after about 40. However, there is no reason you can’t continue to go out if you still look good.
Many guys are in better shape in their 40s than they were in their 20s.
Nevertheless, if you’re in your 40s, you probably don’t go out to bars that much.
You probably don’t go to bars and clubs because they are loud. You probably don’t go out because the crowd is younger than you.
And, you probably don’t go out because you don’t feel like staying out until 4:00 a.m. anymore.
Don’t worry, you’re not missing out.
Bars Suck Now
The girls in bars and clubs are not nearly as friendly as they used to be. Now, most girls go to bars only to get validation.*
*This was true before 2020 and is true now.
They are only there to take pictures of each other and post on Instagram.
While girls might hang out at your table for a while if you have bottle service, most girls have no intention of going home with you or anyone else.
On top of the fact that girls are not in bars to meet guys, there are no more hot girls in bars.
In the 90s, and early 2000s, hot girls went to bars to get validation from guys talking to them. Now, hot girls get all the validation they want on their Instagram, and dating apps.
That leaves only average and below-average girls in bars.
There is a better way.
If you’re not going to meet girls at bars and clubs, the next best thing is online dating.
Thankfully, online dating has become more mainstream these days. More girls are doing online dating than in the past.
In fact, if you are looking for a girlfriend, meeting a girl online is probably better than bars and clubs. If anything, bars and clubs are good for drunken one-night stands.
However, most online dating sites suck.
They suck because there are so many desperate guys after only a few hot girls.
But this imbalance is reversed on Seeking.com
One area of online dating that does not suck is on Seeking.com.
Dating sites like seeking.com are great because beautiful girls seeking excitement.
If you’re going to do online dating instead of the bar scene, there is no reason not to sign up for seeking.com.
Remember, in Seeking.com, you have relationships on your terms.
Ditch the bars, stay off Tinder, and sign up for Seeking.com.
Try for free here -> Seeking.com.
P.S. Seeking.com, originally, at SeekingArrangements.com