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How To Hire an Escort

How To Hire an Escort

If you’re a bachelor and you haven’t had sex with a super hot girl in a while, or haven’t had 2 hot girls in your bed at the same time, a simple solution is to hire an escort on the internet.

But if you’ve never hired an escort over the internet, you’ll be nervous.  HOWEVER, after your first time, the actual process of hiring an escort will be quite boring.

Here’s a quick “how to guide.”


First, go to a website called is the single best website to start whether you’re a beginner, or even if you’re experienced with hiring girls on the internet.

On you’ll find girls who’ve been hired by guys and their reviews of their experience.  Think of it as a Yelp, or Angieslist for escorts.  Also, is good because it’s been around for years – at least since 2006.



On look for girls who’ve been reviewed at least 5 times. Browse some of the reviews and comments. Then click on the links to the girl’s website, or where she’s advertising in the “ad website” section.



Pay particular attention to girls that advertise on a site called There are many other directory sites for escorts, but is the best.  It’s also been around for a very long time and is about as mainstream as an escort site can get.

TIP:  Unless the girl has many, many, good reviews on and advertises on multiple other sites, don’t use Craigslist or Backpage.  Too many risks with those sites.



On her website or advertisement, look for girls who charge between $300 and $700 per hour.  You get what you pay for!  You don’t wanna spend money and get a girl no hotter than a girl you could get for free in about 1 hour in a bar.

One exception! “PSE” – The Pornstar Experience.

lsIf you wanna have a great time with your favorite pornstar.  As said in Pornstar Pro or A Random you can pay anywhere from $1,000 to $3000 per hour for your favorite pornstar.  These girls are no longer fantasies on your computer screen.

TIP:  Checkout the “XXX Stars” section of in Los Angeles, or New York, to see what I’m talking about.



Carefully review the escort’s website.

TIP:  When you call/text/email the girl for the first time she’ll expect you to know her requirements, rules, and “donation amount” (rates)



When you call, tell them your name and ask if the girl is available for your desired day and time. Also, tell them it’s your first time.


You’re paying for time only, and what happens between consenting adults is up to you two.

Never haggle/negotiate her price*

*different story if you run into a professional girl in a Las Vegas casino or Las Vegas club.

Note: For your first call, you will be screened. The girl or agency booker will want to know some basic information about you because the girls have 2 main concerns (1) you’re not law enforcement, and (2) you’re not an abuser.  They will ask you what seems like personal questions. Cooperate with them because they only wanna feel safe, nothing more – if it’s too much, you don’t have to hire them.

After the first time, you’ll never have to give much personal information again, because you’ll have a reference.







Tell the girl or agency booker whether you want the girl to come to you (called “outcall”) or if you wanna go to her location (called “in call”)



Clean yourself up.

This is the most important concept of all!

I dedicated an entire post called HELP! My Escort Won’t Leave because the girl’s opinion of you makes a ton of difference.  Yes, you’re paying money, and yes they’re actresses, but the girl must be a little turned on for you to have a great time (unless, maybe if you’re a billionaire in Dubai).  On some escort reviews, you’ll see “YMMV,” as I explained before, this stands for “Your Mileage May Vary.” So, be clean, have good hygiene, and well groomed.



When she arrives, have her money in an envelope in plain sight, or in the bathroom, unless she tells you otherwise on her website.


STEP 10:

There will likely be some small talk, she might ask you for Id, you can offer her a drink if you want. At some point, she is gonna use the bathroom. When she goes to the bathroom, that is the time for you to undress and get in bed.


STEP 11:

Expect the girl to come out in some type of lingerie, with oil, lotion, condoms, etc.

Remember the utilitarian/scripted-ness of hiring a girl is why I said a random girl in a bar is normally better than an escort in Pornstar pro or A Random. Also, she may have rules, and depending on the size of your dick, she may have prohibited positions.

Note: Going back to YMMV, it’s possible she’ll start with a bbbj (bare back blow job) – blow job without a condom.  But, on your 1st, or 1000th time, never, never, have sex without a condom.  Another reason to have your own condoms. You are paying for time only, so it’s her choice on what happens. Just like buying dinner and a movie before she comes over.


STEP 13:

When it’s over, she’ll go back to the bathroom and clean up. After, she’ll likely kiss you and leave.  But, if you’re cool, nice, and she thinks you’re hot, she’ll almost certainly tell you to keep her info and call her again. They always want cool good looking regulars.

Now you’re no longer a beginner…


If you would like more information on the process of hiring an escort, there is more detail in my book “How to Hire an Escort.”

Click This link -> How To Hire an Escort



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32 Comments on How To Hire an Escort

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    • The Bachelor // August 11, 2015 at 5:23 am // Reply

      Thank you, sorry for the delayed response, my comments are going to spam for some reason. To answer your question, when I’m doing something that I think others should know about, I make note of it for a later article. It may be helpful for you to keep a scrapbook of ideas, then pull them out when your ready to write. Hope that helps

  6. This is by far the best description of hiring an escort!! I will definitely be linking your blog to my website for my new clients. Keep up the amazing work!

  7. Hi great info here.

    Is normal to give full name and place of employment When you call girl on Eros?

    • The Bachelor // April 18, 2017 at 12:23 am // Reply

      You must always give your full name the first time you call a girl on Eros. As a part of the screening, most use employment to verify who you are, but they may have another way to verify you. If it’s not your first time, and you have a reference, first name should be enough.

  8. Very helpful blogs! Thank you!
    With TER, do you recommend springing for a VIP membership?

    • The Bachelor // August 16, 2017 at 6:33 pm // Reply

      Thank you for the comment! Vip is not necessary because TER is most valuable for the number of reviews. If you see 5-10 reviews, that’s more important than the details you get with VIP

  9. Is it normal for them to want a copie of your id and a selfie with the date attached to it before you meet? A little scared. First time.

    • The Bachelor // October 22, 2017 at 9:08 pm // Reply

      A selfie is not normal, but showing id is always required. If she is willing to see you without a reference, this may be her specific requirement. Remember most escorts will not see anyone without a verified reference.

  10. Hi, I was just wondering on your thoughts about burner phones? Whether they’re useful or even necessary when you have no SO to be worried about or anything like that.

    • The Bachelor // January 3, 2018 at 4:47 pm // Reply

      Reputable well-reviewed escorts are professionals. They are paid for secrecy. Additionally, a burner phone is not advisable because at some point you will have to prove who you are anyway. Or more specifically, you must prove you are not LE.

  11. el gordito // April 15, 2018 at 9:30 am // Reply

    any advice now that TER and similar sites have been taken down due to the new law? thanks

    • The Bachelor // April 16, 2018 at 3:44 am // Reply

      Not yet. There are already sites back up that escorts use to warn other escorts about problem guys/clients. It shouldn’t be long before there are sites or forums back up reviewing escorts.

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  13. Hi I am trying to hire an escort for the first time. So far I have been stuck at no reply from my emails. Also, eroticreviews doesnt work in my country. Where should I go for reviews and what should I do with my situation?

    • The Bachelor // July 17, 2018 at 1:46 pm // Reply

      Be sure to follow her contact instructions carefully. She may want text or phone calls instead. Also, hire any girl who accepts “newbies” for your first time (to get a reference) You’re probably stuck because you don’t have a reference.

  14. durrell MitcheII // August 21, 2018 at 4:16 am // Reply

    I had a great time with Lacey Duvalle 3 times in 2016. BBFS with multiple creampies…..she’s the greatest!

  15. Since TER is still banned in the US, what do you recommend for verifying she is legit and not LE? If she is verified by P411 and has a solid website and ad presence (Eros/Slixa) is that enough to be comfortable that she is legit?

    • You can’t be sure without reviews. The sites you mention are good but they don’t give you unbiased opinions on the intangibles such as her attitude, appearance in person, overall experience, etc.

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